Between Lines
Twelve moments. Tap how much each sounds like you, 1 to 5. About three minutes.
sambuemi.com/handoff
A listener hears only the taps of a famous song. Out of 10 songs, how many will they name? Show me with fingers.
Then they say it back.
They saw it coming in low and never pushed it up. Why?
The best groups shared the talking. (Woolley et al., Science, 2010)
A typical meeting: one or two voices.
This isn't a poster. This is us. Every Role. Every Day.
- Say what we actually think about the work, not just what's easy to hear.
- Share what the next shift, or the next function, actually needs to know.
- Treat disagreement about the work as useful, not as a threat.
- Say it in the room, not after, where the people who can act on it can hear it.
- Letting a silo (physical, temporal, or functional) become an excuse not to pass something along.
- Undermining a coworker or another team, especially where they can't hear it.
- Turning a disagreement about the work into a judgment about the person.
- Letting conflict go underground (artificial harmony or the parking lot) instead of getting resolved.
Every "avoid" is easy to justify in the moment.
Neither line is wrong, exactly. That's what makes it worth rewording.
16 surgical teams, one new technology. The difference was the leader. (Edmondson, 2003)
People decide whether it's safe by watching what you do, not what you say.
Partner A delivers the bad news. Partner B: thank them first, then ask what they need.
What's not normal? What's next? Who do I call?
What am I making it cost them?
Work or person?
Admit it. Thank the bad news.
Then do it again next shift. Workbook page 3 is yours to keep.
Who passed you a good handoff, spoke up, argued fair, or went first?
Think. Pair. Share.
Thank them this week.
Sign it. Say it to someone before you leave this room. Workbook page 3.
The silos are real. Collaboration is choosing to cross them anyway, on purpose, every shift.